How To Know He’s Serious About You

I love talking about dating because it is such a fun topic. However, as fun as dating is, it can sometimes become stressful. I have had my fair share of dates and I have learned a few things along the way. One of the most common questions that I get is “How do I know that he’s serious about me?” 

I hear you sister!

When you have been talking to a guy for a while, you start to wonder where things are going and if it is worth your time. The most obvious way to find out if he is serious about you is to ask him. However, I understand that is not always the case. Even though you might not be able to have this discussion with him, there are key pointers based on his actions and your experiences together.

If you are in a situation where you are wondering if he really serious about you, use the points below to check if his actions align:

He Will Tell You:

This is the most direct way to know if a guy is serious about you. He will undoubtedly tell you his intentions and let his feelings be known. I am very old fashioned when it comes to these things and I believe that the guy should lead the way when it comes to vocalizing intentions.

He Will Be Intentional About Spending Time With You:

He will create time in his day to meet up with you and spend time with you. These may not always be a fancy date, but he will put in effort beyond texting “wyd” or “come over to my place.’

He Will Be Involved In Your Passions:

He will ask about your ambitions and find ways to be involved in your journey to becoming your best self. He will ask about your future career goals, what kind of vacations you would like to go on, and other things that relate to your passions.

He Will Remember Important Events

When you tell him about important events in your life, he will make an effort to remember or even wish you good luck with school, work, or whatever the events are.

He Will Be Consistent:

This!!! He will be very consistent! He will not ghost you for weeks and come back when he is bored. Consistency is the key to knowing how serious someone is about you. 

I hope these tips provide some clarity for you. Remember that you are worth the effort and do not settle for less than you deserve.