Top ten relationship killers and how to deal with them

JEALOUSY

Jealousy can destroy a relationship. Jealousy, insecurity, and mistrust go hand in hand. Of course, it’s not unusual to feel jealous over someone you love but acting on that sprout of jealousy is where the damage lies. Also, jealousy isn’t always about the third person in the picture, it could also be that feeling you get when your partner gets promoted and you weren’t or your partner seems to be doing better than you are.

What to do: Stop stalking him/her. Do not feed your jealousy. Kill every suspicious thought till you are proven right. One thing common in each advice is to speak to your partner, let them know how you feel and how they can also help you. Also, learn to celebrate your partner’s accomplishments and know that as partners you share in your partner’s achievements also. There is no “you” and “I”, there is only “we”: “We” got the promotion! If you are at the receiving end then explain to your partner the damage his/her jealousy may be causing and tell them why he/she has no reason to be jealous.