Top ten relationship killers and how to deal with them

COMPARISON

Never compare your partner to another, you might as well just go and be with the person in question. Comparison leads to dissatisfaction which leads to fault finding. Suddenly, things that you would have typically let go of would cause a major fight. You may not see the good in your partner any more because you want them to be like someone else.

What to do: Remind yourself that you chose to be with this person instead. Also, know that the person you maybe comparing your partner with have their own flaws and imperfections. If there are areas you would love your partner to work on, then communicate it to them.